Yes it is and it never felt so good..
The last few minutes of 2015 sweaty with starry eyes jumping up and down I told myself this is how I want to feel everyday.. Free.. Full of life..Purpose and Spirit.. My third eye opened up and and then it hit me.. I didn't need Friends.. Boyfriends.. Money.. I needed..
I LOVE MYSELF
How those three words are turned against YOU by the MAJORITY
I HATE THE MAJORITY
Hate is such a strong word.. I know but it's the only word I could use to describe my passion for the opposite word..LOVE.
Yes we are the minority because we were wise enough to discover the SECRET?
It's no secret to be honest it's just simple everyday LIFE
I have learnt how to Love it, Embrace it, and Live it MY way.
I have learnt how to love myself for who I am..All my flaws, mistakes and imperfections I've accepted them and spread my wings.. Still a long way to fly though.. And of course sometimes there are obstacles along the way..but with the LOVE of GOD in your heart.. You'll find your purpose.
You'll overcome any obstacle if your weapon is GOD.
Do you know why?
Because GOD IS LOVE..
LOVE CONQUERS ALL
Whispered two warm trembling voices, sea breeze tickling my face, eyes filled with emotion, I look up..my parents Doreen & Fitzroy, a fiery couple but filled with LOVE, what kept them together so many years, married on a beautiful Carribbean sea an island filled with LOVE.
They grew to love one another for who they were which kept them grounded.
You always need to stay grounded..BALANCED.
WE need balance.. WE need to be balanced in this UNBALANCED world..
Connecting with good spirits.. Positive energy..CONNECT WITH GOD AND YOU LEARN TO Connect with LOVE.
Anything that is LOVE CONNECT WITH IT.
Because GOD IS LOVE..
Each day at a time I guess..
But I'm a believer..
For the first time I'm a believer in my self..
Not forgetting the fact that my childhood bestfriend is Beyoncés new side kick on stage now...*screams inside*
I feel the positive vibrations from her..5000 miles away.
I saw the journey with my own EYES
MY OWN EYES
I AM A WITNESS
My TAJANA Living her TRUE DREAM💕✨💫
Life is what you make it..
You can achieve anything anything anything you want in life if you believe.. Put your mind to it.. Give it your everything and more.. Push push push..and practice PATIENCE
Patience is key in your journey.
Even when you have down days and feel like giving up.. Even when tears drown you.. Even when hearts get broken.. Even when family members don't support you or like you..even when people are toxic and jealous of you.. Even when your constantly struggling for money.
EVEN WHEN YOUR SINGLE.
Being single is good for your health, but society flips it back on you as if you are an alien, "How old are you?" 24, 25, 26 "Oh and your single?" "When you are dropping your baby" "when are you getting married" pardon? "Let me live my life first no?" "Let me set my future up first no?" "Let me experience life first no?"
I guess it works different for everyone as everyone's life/journey is different but for me this is the longest I've been single ever.. And sometimes you need that time to learn about yourself, learn who you are and learn to actually LOVE YOURSELF.
You know that saying:
"Love yourself first or nobody else will"
And it doesn't just relate to relationships it relates to every aspect of your life, your career, your family and your friendships.
It says in all these self help books that I read
"It's okay to be single" and "Especially in your 20's"
LET GO, BE FREE, ENJOY YOUR SELF, LOVE THE LIFE YOU'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU GENUINELY HAPPY :)
You can turn your life around and it all starts with that ugly pink thing inside your contoured face.
Shout to the plug Khloe Bailey! Ha Kappa ain't dead ;)