Wednesday, 1 June 2016

"Dry Babes" Friends, Food & Creativity.

I love my friends, I love to cook and I absolutely love being creative.

I am someone that is always down for good time whenever and wherever.

I love to host, I love to smile, I love being happy and these three words " Friends, Food and Creativity" make me extremely happy especially when they are all combined together in one room.

I had a few friends over on the weekend where I got to cook a few of my favourite dishes, drink some of my favourite homemade cocktails and smoke some of my favourite earthly goodness ha!

And I must say I had a lovely time, we danced, we talked, we debated, we laughed, and we loved but most importantly our bellies were full with yummy food :-)

We breathed in balloons and escaped life for about 10 seconds floating on cloud 9, giddy with dazed eyes ha.

But overall I must say the day and night was so cute, I believe it's important to take time out of your busy schedules and connect with your friends, share stories and memories and also embrace each others journeys as we each embark on different paths to what we dream to be successful.

Life is truly what you make it and I just want to live one where I look back on all my memories and smile :-)

Surround yourself with good energy, good people and most importantly GOOD food lol.

You'll never look back once you do that :)

Shot by Mulan edited by Me :)

Monday, 16 May 2016


We've got to make a change 
We can't carry on this on this way.

The youth today has changed
I don't remember it being this is way.

Turnt against each other by a point of a knife
Before their eyes.

We got to make a change we can't carry on this way 
We are brothers and sisters created by God in his own Devine way.

Don't take away gods best creation 
Don't take away a gift that you are blessed with.

Why is it so hard for our black male youths to love one another how deep does it go..

From our Ancestor being beat black and blue by another race why are we now beating each other black?

Why have we turned against our own race?


Where does this violence and anger stem from?

Something that happens every month

It has to

Why are we so violent towards each..

Is it the competition/comparisons?

The rush to be extravagantly rich to show off watches, cars "lifestyles" materialistic things 

To prove we can make it, to prove we too can live a good, successful happy life?

Keep that drive and ambition but subtract the violence, the love for money and the competition.

The desire for money is the route to all evil.

Don't let money be your only passion your only drive or else it will drive you to dark places.

Stop competing with each other, stop desiring the wrong things, slow down.. Embrace one another as brothers and sisters.

Help one another, lead one another, support one another LOVE on another.

You are your only competition.

No one else.

'Love thy neighbor as yourself.' There is no commandment greater than these." Mark 12:31 



Sunday, 1 May 2016


Yes it is and it never felt so good..

The last few minutes of 2015 sweaty with starry eyes jumping up and down I told myself this is how I want to feel everyday.. Free.. Full of life..Purpose and Spirit.. My third eye opened up and and then it hit me.. I didn't need Friends.. Boyfriends.. Money.. I needed..

One word..



How those three words are turned against YOU by the MAJORITY


Hate is such a strong word.. I know but it's the only word I could use to describe my passion for the opposite word..LOVE.


Yes we are the minority because we were wise enough to discover the SECRET?


It's no secret to be honest it's just simple everyday LIFE


I have learnt how to Love it, Embrace it, and Live it MY way.

I have learnt how to love myself for who I am..All my flaws, mistakes and imperfections I've accepted them and spread my wings.. Still a long way to fly though.. And of course sometimes there are obstacles along the way..but with the LOVE of GOD in your heart.. You'll find your purpose.

You'll overcome any obstacle if your weapon is GOD.

Do you know why?

Because GOD IS LOVE..


1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Whispered two warm trembling voices, sea breeze tickling my face, eyes filled with emotion, I look parents Doreen & Fitzroy, a fiery couple but filled with LOVE, what kept them together so many years, married on a beautiful Carribbean sea an island filled with LOVE.

They grew to love one another for who they were which kept them grounded.

You always need to stay grounded..BALANCED.

WE need balance.. WE need to be balanced in this UNBALANCED world..


Connecting with good spirits.. Positive energy..CONNECT WITH GOD AND YOU LEARN TO Connect with LOVE.

Anything that is LOVE CONNECT WITH IT.

Because GOD IS LOVE..

Each day at a time I guess..

But I'm a believer..

For the first time I'm a believer in my self..

Not forgetting the fact that my childhood bestfriend is Beyoncés new side kick on stage now...*screams inside*

I feel the positive vibrations from her..5000 miles away.

I saw the journey with my own EYES




My TAJANA Living her TRUE DREAM💕✨💫

Life is what you make it.. 

You can achieve anything anything anything you want in life if you believe.. Put your mind to it.. Give it your everything and more.. Push push push..and practice PATIENCE


Patience is key in your journey.

Even when you have down days and feel like giving up.. Even when tears drown you.. Even when hearts get broken.. Even when family members don't support you or like you..even when people are toxic and jealous of you.. Even when your constantly struggling for money.



Being single is good for your health, but society flips it back on you as if you are an alien, "How old are you?" 24, 25, 26 "Oh and your single?" "When you are dropping your baby"  "when are you getting married" pardon? "Let me live my life first no?"  "Let me set my future up first no?" "Let me experience life first no?" 

I guess it works different for everyone as everyone's life/journey is different but for me this is the longest I've been single ever.. And sometimes you need that time to learn about yourself, learn who you are and learn to actually LOVE YOURSELF.

You know that saying:

 "Love yourself first or nobody else will"


And it doesn't just relate to relationships it relates to every aspect of your life, your career, your family and your friendships.

It says in all these self help books that I read 
"It's okay to be single" and "Especially in your 20's"


You can turn your life around and it all starts with that ugly pink thing inside your contoured face.

Shout to the plug Khloe Bailey! Ha Kappa ain't dead ;)